Speaking

Bring grief awareness to your community.

I'm Niki Humpherys, a certified grief educator, coach and Harper's mom. I can speak with schools, churches, workplaces, hospitals and hospice teams about grief, what to do when someone feels alone and how to help others.

Niki Humpherys, certified grief educator and coach
If you or someone you know is struggling, call or text 988 (U.S.) any time. You are not alone.
Talks

Five ways I can help.

Every talk is shaped for your group and runs 30 to 90 minutes, depending on the format.

Grief 101 for students

What grief is, why it can feel so big and how to ask for help. Age-right for middle and high school students.

You'll leave with
  • What grief can feel like, so they know they're not alone
  • Who they can talk to and how to ask for help

When you feel alone

Grief awareness and suicide prevention: the warning signs, how to start a caring conversation, how to reach out and where to find help, including 988 and local support.

You'll leave with
  • The warning signs to watch for in yourself and others
  • Simple words to start a caring conversation
  • How to reach 988 and local help

Helping grieving kids

For teachers, school counselors and staff: what grieving kids need, what to say and simple ways to support them in the classroom.

You'll leave with
  • What to say and what not to say to a grieving student
  • Simple classroom supports for hard days and anniversaries

Show up for grief

For churches, workplaces and community groups: what to say, what not to say and how to keep showing up long after the funeral.

You'll leave with
  • Words that comfort instead of hurt
  • Small ways to keep showing up after the first few weeks

Harper's story

A keynote about Harper, her prom moment seen by more than a million people, life as a cancer family and finding hope one wingbeat at a time.

You'll leave with
  • Hope from a mom who has lived it
  • Ways to support cancer families and grieving parents
Formats

However your group gathers.

Keynote30 to 60 minutes

For assemblies, conferences and events.

Workshop60 to 90 minutes

Hands-on, with real activities and time to talk.

Staff training60 to 90 minutes

For teachers, church leaders, hospital and hospice teams.

VirtualOn Zoom

Any talk, from anywhere.

Every talk includes

  • A take-home resource sheet
  • A "what to say" card
  • 988 and local help information
  • Time for questions
Free download

Take the help home.

My grief and 988 resource sheet plus the "What to say" card. Print them for your school, church or team, or keep them for yourself.

Who I speak with

For every place grief shows up.

Schools & youthChurches & communityWorkplacesHospitals & hospice
Free

Schools and community groups

Offered as a program of Harper's Hope Foundation, our grief support nonprofit (501(c)(3) status pending). We hope to keep these talks free through grants and community support.

By quote

Workplaces and conferences

Booked through Niki Humpherys Grief Coaching. Fees depend on the talk, length and travel. Request a talk and I'll send a quote.

Foundation talks and paid talks are kept fully separate. Talks that touch on suicide follow safe messaging guidelines: hope, warning signs and how to get help, with no graphic details.

Request a talk

Let's plan together.

Tell me about your group and what you hope people walk away with. I read every request myself.

Follow along

Learn how to show up for grief.

I post gentle, real ways to help someone who is grieving. I also post for the people who love them and want to support them well. Follow me on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook and YouTube.

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Need help right now? If you are in crisis, call or text 988 (U.S.) or your local emergency number. You matter.