Bring grief awareness to your community.
I'm Niki Humpherys, a certified grief educator, coach and Harper's mom. I can speak with schools, churches, workplaces, hospitals and hospice teams about grief, what to do when someone feels alone and how to help others.

Five ways I can help.
Every talk is shaped for your group and runs 30 to 90 minutes, depending on the format.
Grief 101 for students
What grief is, why it can feel so big and how to ask for help. Age-right for middle and high school students.
- What grief can feel like, so they know they're not alone
- Who they can talk to and how to ask for help
When you feel alone
Grief awareness and suicide prevention: the warning signs, how to start a caring conversation, how to reach out and where to find help, including 988 and local support.
- The warning signs to watch for in yourself and others
- Simple words to start a caring conversation
- How to reach 988 and local help
Helping grieving kids
For teachers, school counselors and staff: what grieving kids need, what to say and simple ways to support them in the classroom.
- What to say and what not to say to a grieving student
- Simple classroom supports for hard days and anniversaries
Show up for grief
For churches, workplaces and community groups: what to say, what not to say and how to keep showing up long after the funeral.
- Words that comfort instead of hurt
- Small ways to keep showing up after the first few weeks
Harper's story
A keynote about Harper, her prom moment seen by more than a million people, life as a cancer family and finding hope one wingbeat at a time.
- Hope from a mom who has lived it
- Ways to support cancer families and grieving parents
Speaking at the Idaho Pediatric Cancer Coalition
However your group gathers.
For assemblies, conferences and events.
Hands-on, with real activities and time to talk.
For teachers, church leaders, hospital and hospice teams.
Any talk, from anywhere.
Every talk includes
- A take-home resource sheet
- A "what to say" card
- 988 and local help information
- Time for questions
Take the help home.
My grief and 988 resource sheet plus the "What to say" card. Print them for your school, church or team, or keep them for yourself.
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For every place grief shows up.
Schools and community groups
Offered as a program of Harper's Hope Foundation, our grief support nonprofit (501(c)(3) status pending). We hope to keep these talks free through grants and community support.
Workplaces and conferences
Booked through Niki Humpherys Grief Coaching. Fees depend on the talk, length and travel. Request a talk and I'll send a quote.
Foundation talks and paid talks are kept fully separate. Talks that touch on suicide follow safe messaging guidelines: hope, warning signs and how to get help, with no graphic details.
Let's plan together.
Tell me about your group and what you hope people walk away with. I read every request myself.
Learn how to show up for grief.
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